In her mediations, Marney encourages participants to truly listen to one another, to connect, but to still be strong and principled advocates for their positions.
Parties are encouraged to structure and craft a resolution themselves, with the guiding hand of Marney as mediator. Mediation is not meant to be a process in which parties are strong-armed into a settlement which leaves them feeling unsatisfied or bullied.
Instead, people should feel as if they have created something that satisfies their deepest and most pressing concerns and allows a sense of closure. Marney views the role of the mediator in that process as that of a facilitator, a wise friend, a creative shepherd or sounding board to assist in turning issues and problems around into solutions. Where appropriate, Marney will share her own views on the merits of a case, drawing on 30+ years of experience as counsel and mediator, but only if doing so will encourage further discussion, and not to be used as a pressure tactic with either party to a dispute.